Ang mga kelangan mo lang eh…
Time management - Kapag may binigay si prof na assignment na next week pa gagawin, gawin mo na ng mas maaga. Like pagkatapos niya ibigay, gawin mo na agad. Ganon kasi ginagawa ko. Binigay ng Monday ng umaga, tapos na agad ng Monday ng gabi. Sa ganong paraan, male-lessen ‘yung cramming stages mo. Kesa naman ipagpa-bukas mo tapos ‘yung ibang prof eh magbibigay ng projects, lalo ka lang matatambakan.
- Planner - Sa pag-aayos ng oras mo sa college, at mga kelangang dates na tandaan kelangan nakalagay lahat ‘yan sa planner mo. Sa daming pinagagawa kelangan alam mo kung kelan mo sisimulan at kelan ang deadline. Pwede rin ang gamitin ang calendaryo sa cellphone mo, useful din. Reminders and notes.
Disiplina sa sarili - Hindi pwede ‘yung isang tawag lang ng mga kaibigan mo na paparty daw kayo eh gora ka agad. Tingnan mo muna kung pwede ka at fit sa schedule mo. Tingnan mo kung wala kang dapat asikasuhin. Tingnan mo kung may quiz bukas, kung may project na hindi pa tapos. Unahin ang pag-aaral. Maraming party pa na darating, madaling kunin lahat ‘yon pabalik, ang grades hindi.
Focus - Lalo na kung mahirap ang course mo, ‘wag ka pa-banjing banjing. Walang maiitulong sa’yo ‘yan. Masarap ang pakiramdam na wala kang problema sa grades. Masarap makipagkwentuhan sa magulang mo na maganda ang lagay ng studies mo. That way, magaan ang loob mo, masaya pa ang parents mo, natututo ka pa.
Pick your friends - May ibang studyante ang madaling ma peer pressure. ‘Yung mga freshmen na ‘di naman talaga naninigarilyo, pag dating sa college, hala sige! Sunog baga na, bakit? Na-impluwensyahan agad ng mga kaibigan. ‘Wag ganon. Hindi makakabuti sa’yo ‘yon, umiikli pa ang buhay mo. Sumama ka sa mga kaibigan na makakabuti sa’yo, ‘yung mahilig mag-aral. Dun ka mahawa at nakakaganda ‘yon. Pati attitude mo towards life maiiba.
Mag-aral ng mabuti. Mahirap ng may naiiwan kang subject. Third year ka na tapos may mga subject ka pa sa 1st year. Sayang oras.
Kapag okay lahat ng ‘to, less stress. Pero aminin natin hindi mo maiiwasang ma-stress kasi marami talagang pinapagawa. Kahit pa umpisahan mo ng maaga nag mga projects mo, may mga times na shit gone mad ang mangyayare, pero handle mo lang. Treat everything as a hurdle na kelangan mong talunan para maka-lagpas ng maayos.
Seryosohin mo ang college dahil hindi biro ang laki ng tuition fee. Maawa ka nalang sa mga magulang mo. Okay.
(Source: sheamnessy)
Walang iwanan.
Kahit ano mangyare hindi natin iiwanan ang isa’t isa, kahit ilang beses tayo mag-away hindi natin iiwanan ang isa’t isa, kahit ilang beses mo ako paiyakin ay hindi pa din kita iiwan, kahit lagi mo akong sinasaktan, okay lang sa akin kasi alam ko namang mababawi lahat ng sakin na naramdaman ko dahil sa iyo kasi papasayahin mo din naman ako para makabawi ka sa akin, kahit lagi kang wala dito sa tabi ko lalong lalo na kapag kailangan kita, okay lang sa akin at hindi pa din kita iiwan. Ganyan kita ka-mahal eh. Ang tanga ko na lang siguro kapag iniwanan pa kita at pinagpalit sa iba.
Kahit kailan ay hindi mangyayare iyon. Hindi kita iiwan. Okay lang na pumasok ako sa isang horror house basta kasama kita at hawak mo ang kamay ko. Sabay tayo titili at kapag natatakot na tayo ay tatakbo na tayong dalawa para hindi na tayo matakot. Parang ang gusto ay okay lang na may mumu basta hawak mo naman ang kamay ko at pinoprotektahan mo naman ako. Ang drama ba? Sorry na, inlove ako eh. Inlove ako sa iyo.
God wants to empower and strengthen you to overcome every obstacle in this life. He wants to give you confidence, wisdom and boldness to pursue the dreams and desires in your heart. He wants to give you supernatural insight so that you can be a witness of His goodness. In scripture, Peter and John were supernaturally equipped. Everyone around them marveled at their boldness, at their ability. They knew Peter and John didn’t have any formal training. They knew there wasn’t anything special about them. This power and wisdom could have only come from one place—the presence of Jesus.
Friend, when you spend time with Jesus, people will see it. You’ll be energized by His anointing and equipped by His grace. That’s why it’s so important to take time every day to be in His presence. No matter where you are on this earth, His presence is only a prayer away. Scripture says He is near to all who call upon His name. It says that He inhabits the praises of His people. Make your relationship with Him your number one priority and be empowered by His presence each and every day!
Isn’t it’s sweet when boys do the old style of courting a girl? Wherein bago nila marinig ang matamis mong “Oo” dadaan muna sila sa iba’t ibang paraan in order for them to win your heart.
Such as harana, at night they will plan to serenade you outside your house, then haharanahin ka nila ng isang song na medyo old for us pero sweet pa rin pakinggan. Of course with the help of his friends that serves as his back ups, iintayin nila na buksan mo yung window and finally you’ll entertain them to listen the song that he dedicates for you.
Next is sending you love letters instead of sending text messages. For me, it is an effort to write whatever he feels for you. Write how much he care for you, how much he love you, and how lucky he is to have you around. Somehow, it will take time before you receive his letter. But in the end, it is really worth the wait after you read what’s written inside.
I do believe that harana and handwritten love letters will never go out of style. And yes, it doesn’t matter kung makabago or makalumang style pa ng panliligaw ang ginagawa mo. Because as long as you make her happy and you show her that you really love her. It’s already enough to explain what love and happiness really means.
(Source: thisgirlonfiree)
